Recently I've had the chance to meet several people from different cultures and countries. It's been really cool to get to know other folks and hear about their experiences and outlook on life.
What struck me was not how different we were but rather, how similar.
Everyone had the desire to move ahead in life and find ways to enhance that experience.
Simply stated, everyone wants to be happy.
Whether from North America, Africa. Japan or Switzerland, each one of us has issues and stresses and goals. We all need to learn ways to overcome our faults and reach out in an attempt to understand those who are dearest to us.
In my own life, I've noticed a big difference between approving of someone's behavior and accepting it.
When I was younger I was very rigid about right and wrong; I couldn't or wouldn't accept anyone whose beliefs or lifestyle was different from my own. I believed that anyone who didn't agree with me was being willfully wrong and deserved to be judged or even ridiculed.
I don't feel that way now.
Over time, I"ve seen many good-hearted well-meaning folks whom I've really come to admire despite our differences. And I've tried to imagine the situation from their perspective.
Now THAT'S and eye-opener!
I realize now that to accept someone as they are is not a compromise of my own beliefs. Just like I don't expect anyone to fully approve of my personal choices I sure am glad when someone reaches out to me and loves me anyway.
I think that's what we're supposed to do.
So as I interact with individuals from other parts of the world or just down the street, I desire to respect them and expect them to do the same for me.
That's what can lead to happiness.
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